Hieromonk Seraphim (Rose) – Advice to the contemporaries.
Dear brother in Christ:
Greetings in our Lord Jesus Christ! Thank you for your letter. I appreciate the seriousness of what you have written, and I will reply with the same seriousness.
I must tell you first of all that, to the best of our knowledge, there are no startsi today – that is, truly God-bearing elders (in the spirit of the Optina elders) who could guide you not by their own wisdom and understanding of the Holy Fathers, but by the enlightenment of the Holy Spirit. This kind of guidance is not given to our times – and frankly, we in our weakness and corruption and sins do not deserve it.
To our times is given a more humble kind of spiritual life, which Bishop Ignatius Brianchaninov in his excellent book The Arena (do you have it?) calls life by counsel – that is, life according to the commandments of God as learned in the Holy Scriptures and Holy Fathers and helped by those who are elder and more experienced. A starets can give commands; but a counselor gives advice, which you must test in experience.
We do not know of anyone in particular who would be especially able to counsel you in the English language. If this is really needful for you, God will send it to you in His time, according to your faith and need, and without your making too deliberate a search for it.
Since you have written me, I will venture to give you a word or two of general advice, based upon what you have said in your letters, as derived from the experience of our small monastic community and our reading of the Holy Fathers.
1) Learn first of all to be at peace with the spiritual situation which has been given you, and to make the most of it. If your situation is spiritually barren, do not let this discourage you, but work all the harder at what you yourself can do for your spiritual life. It is already something very important to have access to the Sacraments and regular church services. Beyond this you should have regular morning and evening prayers with your family, and spiritual reading – all according to your strength and the possibilities afforded by your circumstances.
2) Among spiritual writings you should read especially those addressed to people living in the world, or which give the ABCs of spiritual life – such as St. John of Kronstadt's My Life in Christ, St. Nikodemos Unseen Warfare, the Lives of Saints in general, and Bishop Ignatius Brianchaninov's The Arena (this book, while addressed to novices, is suitable for laymen insofar as it gives in general the ABCs of spiritual life as applied to modern times).
3) To help your spiritual growth and remind you of spiritual truths, it would be good to keep a journal (the hardbound record books sold in stationery stores are good), which would include excerpts from the writings of spiritual books which you find especially valuable or applicable to you, and perhaps comments of your own inspired by reading and reflection, including brief comments on your own shortcomings which you need to correct. St. John of Kronstadt found this especially valuable, as can be seen in his My Life in Christ.
4) Don't criticize or judge other people – regard everyone else as an angel, justify their mistakes and weaknesses, and condemn only yourself as the worst sinner. This is step one in any kind of spiritual life.
I offer this for whatever help it may be to you. I would be glad to try to answer any specific questions you might have, especially on the teaching of the Holy Fathers, almost all of which we have access to in Russian-language editions.
Asking your prayers,
With love in Christ,
From Living Orthodoxy, Jan.-Feb., 1984.
 This note of Fr.Seraphim requires clarifications: the superficial reading might lead to an understanding that some spiritual or material gifts can be "earned". Naturally this is not the point. To every era and to every one of us God gives the best means to attain perfection and salvation as applicable to our strengths and weaknesses. It is exactly the vices of "sins, weaknesses and spiritual deterioration" that would not allow us to employ the fruits of the spiritual eldership, had it appeared. On the other hand, the advantages of the contemporary living – the high level of education, the simplicity of locomotion and communication, the unforeseen availability of the spiritual literature and works of the holy fathers (in Russian, English and other languages) – all contribute to the success of "life according to a spiritual advice". – Ed.